The best and quickest way to enhance your life is simple: just think more positively.
You've probably heard this many times before. And you're probably thinking, "That's a great idea, but in the real world it's much easier said than done."
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It's true; like a lot of things in life, becoming a "positive" someone is an idea that is simple but not necessarily easy. The goal of this brief description is to give you a few straightforward and practical techniques that will help you make determined mental an self-acting and permanent part of your life.
Positive mental is Critically Important
Your thought patterns have a huge work on over every aspect of your life. Your thoughts decide your personality, the quality of your relationships, your financial success, your bodily health, and much more.
You probably have an idea of the power of your thoughts. The fact that you're reading this indicates you know it's important. But if you're like most people, you still grossly underestimate the fine physiological effects your thoughts can have.
For example, by plainly mental of biting into a juicy, yellow lemon you can make your mouth water. That's just a small example of how a thought can generate chemical changes in the body.
The fact is that your thoughts greatly work on much more important things than saliva production. Science has shown that determined thoughts increase your white blood cell count which helps you fight infection and disease. In a study recently published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, researchers at the University of Wisconsin proved that habitancy who convention determined mental are best adequate to fight disease.
In the study, a team of neuroscientists used electroencephalography to quantum brain action and then gave all the subjects flu shots. What they found is that determined mental individuals had a significantly stronger immune response than those who exhibited more a negative thought patterns. The lowest line: determined mental can make you not only happier but healthier as well.
How Do You come to be a determined Thinker?
If you currently have habitual negative thought patterns - and most everybody does - you can learn to eliminate them and replace them with determined thought habits. But it won't happen on its own. You have to make a conscious decision to make a change. Once you do that - and with the help of a few straightforward techniques - it's well pretty easy to come to be totally positive.
Here are a few straightforward techniques you can start using right now:
Smile and Let the Tail Wag the Dog
Being happy can make you smile. But does it also work the other way? Can smiling make you happy?
Researchers at the University of California at San Francisco have discovered that mimicking the facial expressions associated with such emotions as happiness, sadness, and anger can trigger some of the same bodily changes produced by well feeling these emotions. By measuring an array of biometrics - such as heart rate, body temperature, and the electrical resistance of the skin - they demonstrated that plainly smiling made the body "happy." Apparently engaging facial muscles sends signals to the autonomic nervous system, which controls determined muscle and gland activity. This, in turn, spurs the bodily reactions. So, smile and you'll be happy!
Create a Triggering Mechanism for Yourself
Now try your own smiling experiment. Put a big smile on your face right now. You may have to force it at first but do it anyway and see what happens. It's okay if you feel silly. Let the silliness make you smile even more.
As you smile, think of anytime in the past when you felt very happy, joyful and positive. We've all had experiences in our lives when we have felt very positive. Let yourself replay some of those determined moments right now. Let yourself relive feelings of being determined and confident. Continue to smile. Release all cares and concerns and with a big smile on your face, feel yourself becoming more and more determined and carefree.
As your determined feelings continue to build, press the thumb and middle finger of whether hand together slowly but firmly, and say to yourself "I am positive!" Again, while you're feeling very positive, press your thumb and middle finger together and say "I am positive!"
You have just programmed yourself with a mechanism that you can use to trigger these same determined thoughts and feeling anytime you choose. convention this often and soon you'll observation that you can have a determined attitude in any situation merely by pressing your thumb and middle finger together and saying "I am positive!"
Choose Your Words Carefully
What you say and the words you select are very important to maintaining a determined perspective and eliciting determined outcomes.
For example, reconsider the word "don't". If you call out to a child "Don't slam the door!" what's the next sound we commonly hear? Bam!! That's right, the door slamming. It's as if the child didn't hear the "don't." Only the determined part of the statement got through: "Slam the door!" However, if you say "Close the door softly," the child will be much more likely to comply.
Another hazardous word is "can't." habitancy often say I can't lose weight, or I can't quit smoking, or I can't remember names. The more they say that, the more it becomes reality. From now on, let the use of that word be like a red light flashing as a warning that this is negative programming that can generate false limitations. Don't let this word rob you of your true potential.
Eject Negative Self-Talk
More important than the words you say to others are the words you say to yourself. We all have an inner voice that reflects our subconscious thinking. Unfortunately, a lot of our self-talk is negative. For example: "I'll never be able to do it", or "I'll never understand it", or "I'm not smart enough", or "If something can go wrong, it will".
To eliminate negative self-talk you must first come to be aware of it. What are the things that you say to yourself that limit your potential? The moment you come to be aware of the negativity eject it! You can eject it just as well as you can eject a tape from a tape deck.
To make that ejection more vivid, you can press your index finger against your thumb, or against a table or a dashboard, as if you're pressing a button, and at the same time emphatically say "Eject!" Then immediately replace the negative with a determined such as "I can!" Over time, repeating this straightforward bodily action will go a long way to helping you come to be totally positive.
Train Your Brain through Meditation
Research has shown that meditation increases action in the left prefrontal cortex; the same area of the brain that scientists connect with determined thinking. And habitancy who meditate commonly are typically found to be more determined and healthier than the habitancy in general. So learn how to meditate - and convention it often. You'll train your brain to use its determined mental centers more facilely and quickly come to be a more determined person.
Remind Yourself of What's Important
A friend of ours who is a salesman and who's away from his home and house more than he'd like to be, told us about a tape he put together that never fails to lift his spirits. The tape consists of a series of messages from the most important habitancy in his life: his wife, his father, his kids, and his closest friend. On his tape, each of these habitancy says, in his or her own words, how important this man is to them. They say what they like, admire, and respect about him. They say how much they appreciate him, love him, and miss him when he's away. He says that after a tough sales call, or anytime he needs a lift, he plays that tape and at once he feels very fortunate, very happy, and has greater sense of self-worth. It puts all back in its proper perspective, and gives him renewed drive and a very determined attitude. perhaps you could benefit from creating a similar tape of your own.
Wash Away Negativity with a fine Visualization
Another technique for feeling totally determined is called the funnel of energy. It's a straightforward visualization exercise that can take less than a minute, but it makes you feel great.
Here's how you do it. Imagine there's a funnel of determined power flowing in through the top of your head. This determined power comes from the purist, highest, most divine source of power in the universe. It makes you feel more alive, stronger, more aware and alert. The moment it enters your body you sense its positive, loving, medical effect. You feel it cleansing you of negativity. Washing away any past negative programming you have experienced.
It's dissolving all the old fears, the old inhibitions, the old limitations. Feel this positive, loving, medical power washing away all negative thoughts, images and feelings. Feel it releasing your inner strength. The power continues to flow in, through your shoulders, arms and hands, your chest, your back, abdomen, hips, legs and feet, reaching every part of your body dissolving all negativity. It's converting your entire body to remedial determined energy. Imagine all the negativity flowing out of your hands and feet leaving your body filled with only the purest determined energy. If feels so good to free yourself from negativity, it feels so good to be totally positive.
Practice this visualization any time you'd like. Allow the visualization to last as long as you need to feel revived and purged of all negativity. It's great any time you need a lift.
Welcome Life's Obstacles - Adversity is Opportunity
Life throws each of us a lot of curves. No one goes through life without problems, or without running into obstacles. And some of these problems or obstacles can be huge. But what's well important is how we face these obstacles. If we think negatively, we can be overwhelmed, give up or come to be ineffective in dealing with them. But there is a much best way to deal with them. We can select to look for something determined in the situation. We can select to reconsider it a blessing in disguise - even if we have no idea what that blessing might be.
We can look for an benefit or occasion in any situation. As Richard Bach points out in his book Illusions, "There is no such thing as a question without a gift in its hands." And the Chinese word for emergency is written with two characters. One of them means opportunity.
Many of our students have come to be so determined that when an unexpected question arises they automatically say "Oh good!" They then immediately start looking for the occasion presented by the situation. And they inevitably find it. This can work for you, too.
Learning to deal successfully with obstacles can help you live a more fulfilling life. As Booker T. Washington said, "Success is to be measured not so much by the positions that we have reached in life, as by the obstacles which we have overcome while trying to succeed."
Don't Worry - Be Happy
In order to be totally positive, we need to know how to deal with worry. Every thought we have affects us physically as well as mentally, and worry can be very harmful. Dr. Charles Mayo said; "Worry affects circulation, the heart, the glands, the whole nervous system, and profoundly affects the health."
Think about the process you go through when you worry. In your mind you photograph a negative end result. It takes no effort or willpower; you just dwell on it. And in a short time this negative end ensue appears very real to you and you generate the same emotions that you'd caress if it well happened. You caress the same fear, anxiety, or discouragement. Consequently, you end up feeling bad right now for something that is merely a thought in your mind.
At the same time you are setting up patterns in your mind for future negative experiences. The more you worry, the more you train your mind to expect bad things. Even if your "problem" never manifests itself, the worry takes its toll through immediate pain and the harmful effects of immoderate stress.
It's said that worry is interest paid in improve on a debt you may never owe. And Mark Twain put it this way; "I've had a lot of troubles in my day - most of which never happened." So, most worry is useless. You're best off ejecting it.
But you can take the same process you use to worry, convert just one thing, and it can help you immensely. Instead of imagining a negative end result, Imagine a determined one! This, too, takes very petite effort or willpower. Just dwell on that determined end ensue and in no time at all you'll be generating the emotions that are associated with that experience. You'll feel great immediately as a ensue of something that is merely a thought in your mind. You'll feel joy, happiness, and self-confidence. Plus, you'll be setting up patterns in your mind for future determined experiences.
So make the worry process work for you rather than against you. Get into the habit of expecting good things.
Start Today
There are many other things you can do to come to be more positive, but this handful of ideas is a great start. Begin today and you'll soon perceive what a great impact they'll have on your life.
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